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Building Capacity vs. Building Compliance

Dec 16, 2025

When kids came to me for evaluation, I would sometimes ask them to hit a fed ball to the fence at the opposite end of the court. Just hit it hard. Not in. Just to the fence. It was astonishing how many couldn't do it. Some had learned to focus on topspin first. The harder they tried to hit, the shorter the ball would land. They'd been trained to execute a system. Nobody had given them permission to find their own power.

Most parents hear "mindless hitter" and think it's a criticism. They watch a kid rip forehands into the fence and assume something's wrong. The problem is they're looking at the wrong timeline. American junior tennis forces an impossible choice. You can teach kids to win now by playing safe. Or you can teach them to win later by building weapons. You cannot do both at the same time. Here's why that matters beyond tennis.

The Brad Gilbert Conversation

I was standing courtside in Key Biscayne during Brad Gilbert's first week coaching Andre Agassi. This was right after Agassi left Bollettieri. They're hitting on the practice court when Agassi crushes this running forehand winner down the line. Beautiful shot. Turns to Gilbert and says, "I thought you told me I couldn't hit that shot." Gilbert looks at him. "No. What I said is you can't win with that shot. You make one out of three. The crowd goes crazy. You fall in love with their reaction. And you don't see that you're beating yourself with it more often than you're beating your opponent."

That was Agassi playing feel-good tennis. It feels good to hit the big shot even when you're missing it more than making it. But here's what matters. Had Agassi not spent years developing those weapons, Gilbert would have had nothing to work with. You can't strategize with shots you don't have. The hundreds of hours Agassi spent gripping and ripping it, that's what gave Gilbert something to coach.

One of the reasons I was an exceptional Zonals coach was my ability to assess what tools my players came in with. Zonals is a team event where players come from all over. You get them for a weekend. It's pointless to create a game plan that requires executing skills the player doesn't possess. Strategy without capability is fantasy. But capability without agency is just as limiting. The player has to know what they can do and believe they're allowed to use it.

The Real Definition

A mindless hitter is someone who goes for maximum on every ball without caring if it ever lands in. They're more interested in the reaction than the result. That's not what we're talking about here. We're talking about players who are building the capability to hurt opponents when it counts, even if they miss during the building process. There's a difference between not caring if the ball goes in and having agency over your development. The kid who stops caring quits improving. The kid who cares keeps adjusting until the shots start landing. That's agency. They're not waiting for someone to fix them. They're building something.

The Power of AND

Most of us live in a world of OR. Are you going to be an athlete or a good student? Are you going to develop weapons or win matches? Are you going to build technique or learn strategy? The word OR forces choices that shouldn't need to be made. It's a small word that creates artificial constraints.

AND is fifty percent bigger. It's also fifty percent harder. But it's the only way high performance actually works.

The question isn't whether you teach shots first or strategy first. The question is why you'd ever separate them. You can teach players where to hit the ball first and then try to give them the shots they need. Or you can teach them how to hit all the shots first and then teach them when to use what. But the real answer is you do both. You build capability and judgment together. You develop power and the wisdom to deploy it simultaneously. Not because it's easier. Because separating them creates players who have one without the other.

The problem is most coaches don't actually do this. They say they do, but watch what happens on court. Kids learn to loop balls around. They win at twelve because they're more athletic than everyone else. They never learn to strike the ball cleanly. They develop strategy without the capacity to execute it under pressure. They know where the ball should go but lack the weapons to make it threatening. Then something happens around fourteen or fifteen. The kids who spent those years developing both capability and agency start winning. Their shots are going in now. They have power and they're developing the judgment to use it effectively. The early winner is trying to figure out why everyone passed them.

By the time you realize you need to change your game, you're three years behind kids who refused the false choice from the start. You're trying to add power to a game built around not having it. That's not adding a tool. That's rebuilding the architecture.

The Williams Example

There's video from when Venus and Serena were nine to eleven years old. You see the same footwork patterns they used when they won grand slams. Same strokes. Same everything. It looked clumsy because they were nine, but they were practicing the right things from the beginning. More importantly, their father pulled them out of junior tennis when he saw them getting tight at ten years old. They didn't want to lose. They stopped going for their shots. He told the world during an interview that his daughters would compete again when they were ready for the WTA Tour. Not before. He wasn't just protecting their technique. He was protecting their agency. He taught them to play pro tennis. He didn't worry about junior tennis.

This wasn't a template. It was a proof of principle. Most families can't replicate that path. But the principle holds. You can't build capacity by optimizing for compliance.

The Roddick Insight

Andy Roddick said something after he turned pro that explains the whole thing. He said junior tennis is about figuring out how much you can do with a ball. Pro tennis is about figuring out how much you need to do with a ball. As a junior, it was always about hitting it bigger, developing shots you didn't have six months ago, sometimes missing but knowing that was part of the process. Once he turned pro, he had to earn a living. The experimentation stayed on the practice court. Match court was about not beating himself. Had he done it the other way around, we never would have heard of him. No 150 mph serve. No weapons. No career.

The Architecture Question

This isn't just about tennis. This is about how you build any kind of capability. Do you optimize for early wins or long-term capacity? Do you teach compliance or agency? Do you build around what scales easily or what actually works? Tennis courts are just places where these choices become visible faster. The kid who wins at twelve by playing safe looks successful. The kid who's missing while building weapons looks lost. Three years later, the whole picture reverses.

The system rewards compliance. It's easier to manage. Easier to measure. Easier to sell to parents who want to see wins. I understand why parents want to see their kid succeed now rather than struggle. Watching your child lose while others win requires faith that the foundation being built will matter later. But compliance doesn't scale to higher levels. When the competition gets better, compliant players hit a ceiling. They lack the agency to create solutions under pressure. They're waiting for someone to tell them what to do. The truth doesn't care about what's easier to sell.

What This Actually Teaches

When you teach shots first, players develop agency. When pressure arrives, they don't freeze. They have options and the power to execute them. When you teach safety first and shots second, players learn to play within constraints someone else defined. The moment gets tight and they revert to what's comfortable. Which is usually not enough. Most players never build the power they'll need later. They win early without it. Then they reach a level where everyone else has both capability and the agency to use it. They're standing there wondering what happened. The answer is simple. They were taught compliance. Everyone else was taught capacity.

The Actual Problem Being Solved

Here's what connects everything. Drills became the default not because coaches were lazy or incompetent, but because of a fundamental constraint. One coach cannot have strategic conversations with twelve kids simultaneously. You can't observe twelve different learning patterns, ask twelve different Socratic questions, and adapt to twelve different responses all at once. Human attention doesn't scale that way. So we built systems that could scale. Standardized drills. Predetermined progressions. Methods that work the same way for everyone. This is the same constraint that shaped education two centuries ago. The method that develops agency through observation and dialogue simply couldn't reach enough people. So we chose what could scale, even though it produced compliance instead of capacity.

The player who develops through conversational guidance develops agency. They become a tactical entrepreneur. The player who develops through standardized drilling learns compliance. They become a tactical employee, waiting to be told what to do. This wasn't anyone's fault. This was the limit of what human labor could deliver.

Until now.

What changes when the scalability problem disappears? When every player can have continuous Socratic dialogue about when to use which tool, how to read what's happening, what adjustments to make? When observation and conversation can scale without losing the individual adaptation that builds agency? That's not a tennis question. That's an architecture question. Tennis just happens to be where we can see the answer clearly.

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