The Years Nobody Built a Program For
Jul 09, 2026
Your eleven year old walks off the court and you feel good about the program. The coaches are attentive. The drills look purposeful. Nobody is being pushed too hard, and nobody looks bored either. You watch the group next to them, kids who are clearly further along, hitting with more pace and more intent, and you think, that's where mine is headed. Give it time. The system will carry her there.
That belief is reasonable. It is also usually wrong, and it is wrong for a reason that has nothing to do with your daughter and nothing to do with the coaches you're watching.
## The Gap Between Two Systems
Most tennis programs are built around two clear groups. There is the beginner track, where the goal is exposure and fun and nobody worries too much about whether a nine year old can serve into the corner. And there is the high performance track, where the goal is results and everyone knows exactly what a match plan looks like. Both of those tracks are well understood. Coaches know how to run them. Parents know how to recognize them.
Somewhere between the two sits an age group that doesn't belong to either one. Roughly nine to thirteen. Old enough that "just have fun" stops being a full answer, and young enough that treating them like a finished competitor does real damage. A coach I spoke with recently, someone who runs a well regarded academy, described this stretch as the place where the whole system either builds a future high performance player or loses one, and admitted his own program still hasn't solved it. Kids in that age band get handled one of two ways. Either they get folded into the high performance group before they're ready for what that actually requires, or they get left in the recreational group long after they've outgrown what it offers. There is rarely a program built specifically for what they need, which is neither.
This isn't a story about a lazy coach or an uninvolved parent. The coach I spoke with had already tried to build the missing piece. He wrote a plan. He wanted weekly updates for families, regular conversations with parents about development rather than results, and a way to track real markers of progress instead of just wins and losses. He got it started. Then he got pulled back to cover the high performance group when someone else had a family emergency. Then a scheduling conflict ate a few more weeks. By the time he looked up, months had passed and the plan existed mostly on paper. His own words to me were direct: if I had been there the whole time, this would have gotten done.
That's the real story. The knowledge of what these kids need already exists in the coaches who work with them every day. What doesn't exist is a structure that holds that knowledge in place when the person carrying it gets pulled in six directions at once, which is what happens to every good coach, every single week, at every real academy. The plan doesn't fail because it was wrong. It fails because it depended on one person having enough hours in the day, and nobody has enough hours in the day.
## What This Means for Your Kid Specifically
If your child is somewhere in that nine to thirteen window, the question worth asking isn't whether the coaches are good. They probably are. The question is whether there's a written plan for that specific age band, separate from the plan for eight year olds and separate from the plan for sixteen year olds, and whether anyone is accountable for actually running it week to week.
Most programs don't have one. That doesn't mean your child is being neglected. It means the industry hasn't built the piece that would let good coaching survive the ordinary chaos of running a busy academy.
## One Thing You Can Do Before the Next Session
Ask your coach one specific question. Not "how is she doing," which invites a general answer about effort or attitude. Ask: "What are you tracking for kids her age that's different from what you track for the younger group and the older group?" A coach who has thought about this will have a real answer. A coach who hasn't will probably tell you, honestly, that it's the same plan with less intensity. That answer tells you something true about where your child actually sits in the system, and it costs you nothing but one conversation.
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